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  1. How I Beat My Approach Anxiety (Fear of Hitting on Girls)

    Jul 23, 2020 · Taking the Help That very same day, I started the (free) Approach Anxiety Program on Good Looking Loser to beat my approach anxiety. It’s an intensive 6-week program that starts you …

  2. 124 Approaches in a Day: RogerRoger Breaks Records

    (Cover image by Floris Andréa) A couple of months ago, one of my coaching clients had a crazy idea: “I want to hit on 100 girls in a single day.” Nuts. But I’ve seen it done before (a guy on the Good …

  3. How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)

    Mar 26, 2021 · Loser’s mindset and all of that. I’ve long-since moved past it and forgiven him, but man… as a teenager and in most of my 20’s it absolutely ate away at my soul. Feeling like your father …

  4. Time for some Kill Your Inner Loser Motivation. – Andy Wells

    Aug 29, 2023 · Tyler wasn’t special, just a regular guy who joined my coaching program, put in the work and improved himself a little each day. If he can do it, you sure as hell can too. Join me – by joining …

  5. ⁠What I’ve Learned from 10 Years of Coaching Guys (Playing With Fire ...

    Jan 18, 2026 · Andy’s Note: Hey guys, this is a guest post from my friend Alex, from Playing with Fire – he wrote a guest post for me, and I wrote one for his site.

  6. Radical’s Style Guide – Andy Wells - Kill Your Inner Loser

    Aug 2, 2021 · Andy’s foreword: Many of you have asked for a basic style guide that tells you exactly what to go out and buy – here it is, written by Radical. Radical’s THE style coach in my coaching …

  7. What to do When You Feel Hopeless and Helpless – Andy Wells

    Andy was a total loser at the start, so if he can get laid a lot, why can’t I? Am I just putting up bullshit excuses like these ones? Why does Andy deserve to overcome his depression, but not me? Why …

  8. Andy’s Approach Anxiety Program (a Program EVERY Guy Can …

    I really recommend you listen to the audio above first, before you continue reading. To sum up the audio, here’s my “approach anxiety program”:

  9. Join The Winners Club – Andy Wells - Kill Your Inner Loser

    “ I’m ABSOLUTELY SERIOUS about changing my life, improving myself, and taking action. I understand Andy only coaches men and women who are SERIOUS – I’m ready to go all-in and fix my life FOR …

  10. Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do.

    December 4, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do. I’d stare at my phone for twenty minutes debating whether “hey :)” was too eager or whether “hey.” was …